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Working with Personality Disorders as Attachment Disorders June 8 Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) Annual Conference, Chicago www.afccnet.org
Managing High Conflict Personalities in Legal Disputes June 18 Alternative Dispute Resolution Section, Orange County Bar Association, Newport Beach, CA
Ethically Settling High Conflict Disputes June 21 Presenting with Hon. Susan Finlay (Ret)
San Diego County Bar Association, San Diego www.SDCBA.org
Managing High Conflict Clients: Ethics and Risk Management June 25 Solutions on Site Workshops, London, Ontario, Canada www.sosworkshops.ca
Managing High Conflict Clients with New Ways for Families June 26 Solutions on Site Workshops, London, Ontario, Canada www.sosworkshops.ca
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A front page article in Monday’s (Aug. 8, 2011) USA Today newspaper stated that incivility in the workplace is growing, according to the American Psychological Association. A poll in 2011 by Civility in America indicated that 43% of American workers …
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Last week I had a wonderful 2-day retreat/training experience with 30 highly experienced mental health professionals, lawyers, human resource managers and law enforcement officers. It was a perfect mix of professionals for learning how to deal with high conflict people …
p.p1 {margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 15.0px Calibri} I just finished a 2-day “New Ways for Families” training in Alberta, Canada, for the YWCA of Calgary. The YWCA just received a 3-year Ministry of Justice grant to implement this …
On June 2, I was a speaker at the annual international conference of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC). It was held in Orlando, Florida, and my session about the “New Ways for Families” method had approximately 100 …
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High-Conflict Personalities HCPs have a repeated pattern of aggressive behavior that increases conflict rather than reducing or resolving it. It may be part of their personalities – how they automatically and unconsciously think, feel and behave – and they carry …
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